How long is a piece of string?
Define messed up.
Who’s doing the judging?
Why does it matter?
Who are we comparing you to? And why?
The questions that really matter in my opinion are:
How often do I feel good?
How often do I achieve what I set out to do?
How often do I feel joyful?
How often do I feel loved?
How do I make the love, joy and fulfillment happen in my life?
What am I good at?
What do I enjoy doing?
What do I take responsibility for?
That’s not messed up.