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Surviving Bad World News as an Empath

by Sophie June 14, 2016 Abuse

Empaths are affected even more strongly and more negatively than everyone else by public tragedies. I am an abuse survivor, so I don’t take pain lightly and this article is meant with the utmost respect for every human being. This is what I have found helpful: 1- Feel the shock, sadness, grief. Those are real […]

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Heal Yourself, Free Others!

by Sophie March 28, 2015 Abuse

When you heal yourself, you free others to be their best selves. As long as you are in pain, your body and your energy system want to heal, so they send out a vibration requesting help to heal. This vibration attracts people and creates situations that give you the opportunity to heal, often by triggering […]

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An Answer to Fear

by Sophie December 5, 2014 Abuse

“Think of the remedy,” a Sufi friend taught me 11 years ago. “Don’t look at the problem, see the person already healed, in their wholeness.” It applies to situations also. See the situation already healed. Beyond  my outrage and sadness, I had to shake off insidious depression born of the illusion of powerlessness and to […]

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Split The World Open And Find Your Superpowers

by Sophie November 22, 2014 Abuse survivor

“What would happen if one woman told the truth about her life? The world would split open.” ~ Muriel Rukeyser. Many of us fear that if we tell the truth about our lives, the world would split open. Maybe it’s a thought, maybe it’s a body memory of being shushed or physically oppressed. Maybe our […]

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The Edge

by Sophie September 9, 2014 Abuse survivor

Personal growth in general, and spiritual awakening in particular, offer illogical, winding paths. I think partly to surprise us and to train us to let go of expectation, let go of baggage and let go of ego. When we commit to growth and awakening, we learn to live with the unexpected, we find the lessons […]

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Respect = Love

by Sophie July 17, 2013 Abuse

I think today’s lessons are about respectful boundaries. So bear that in mind as people challenge you, betray you, try to invade your privacy or to expose you.  I know it’s part of becoming aware of the clarity that has been offered to us this year  but remember  that: respect is the highest form of  […]

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With Respect and Without Expectations

by Sophie April 26, 2013 Abuse

There is a softness in some people that comes from having let go repeatedly. I don’t mean a giving up. I mean a softness of surrender and acceptance and a purposeful decision to keep on choosing wonder and tenderness that brings them so much closer to the Divine. Softness such as you create with a […]

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Creator of Light

by Sophie April 15, 2013 Abuse

This is about the Boston bombings so if you don’t want to think about that, don’t read today’s article. A little background info so you know where I am coming from. I was born in France in the context of the war against Algeria, from parents who grew up in occupied France during WWII and […]

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Healing the Wounds of Violation and Rape: New Teleclass with Attunement

by Sophie February 22, 2013 Abuse

Last week I went into a deep trance that took me into the Heart of the Goddess, where I was given a new attunement to pass on to my clients and students. The theme of this new attunement is to “Heal the Wounds of Violation and Rape“. The women I have already attuned to it […]

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A New Mosaic of Happiness

by Sophie December 17, 2012 Abuse survivor

Sometimes, out of all the terrible and violent news we are exposed to, an act of violence or a natural disaster traumatises us even though we are not directly involved. This is what I find helpful at such times: 1- remember that my daily reality has not changed. I am still safe. However good modern […]

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