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Surviving Bad World News as an Empath

by Sophie June 14, 2016 Abuse

Empaths are affected even more strongly and more negatively than everyone else by public tragedies. I am an abuse survivor, so I don’t take pain lightly and this article is meant with the utmost respect for every human being. This is what I have found helpful: 1- Feel the shock, sadness, grief. Those are real […]

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Healing for an Adult Survivor of Abuse

by Sophie September 28, 2015 Abuse

Issue: Adult client reports being yelled at and berated by father out of the blue as an adult as she was as a child, feeling betrayed, deeply hurt feelings. Yelling triggers od fear of childhood physical violence. The pain inside, in second chakra particularly, is searing, bitter and twisting. Huge sadness at being pushed away […]

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Heal Yourself, Free Others!

by Sophie March 28, 2015 Abuse

When you heal yourself, you free others to be their best selves. As long as you are in pain, your body and your energy system want to heal, so they send out a vibration requesting help to heal. This vibration attracts people and creates situations that give you the opportunity to heal, often by triggering […]

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An Answer to Fear

by Sophie December 5, 2014 Abuse

“Think of the remedy,” a Sufi friend taught me 11 years ago. “Don’t look at the problem, see the person already healed, in their wholeness.” It applies to situations also. See the situation already healed. Beyond  my outrage and sadness, I had to shake off insidious depression born of the illusion of powerlessness and to […]

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Womb of Life

by Sophie August 10, 2014 Abuse

I dropped, I rolled and I journeyed to the Goddess. I sat on her lap. In the peace of her creative womb. From Her Womb of Life,  I traveled back to the land of the purple shell. I cried tears of despair and longing on the sand and said:” I am sorry for the rape […]

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Why Human Angels Have Painful Childhoods

by Sophie November 4, 2013 Abuse

Human angels are easily repressed in childhood because they are born eager to please. The mission of their soul is to help. Their nature is designed to make them helpers. Helping and supporting is the facet of the Divine that they embody and enact. So when disciplined like other children, they are often emotionally crushed, […]

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About Naive People

by Sophie July 30, 2013 Abuse

We are never done protecting the children, the weak, the incarnated angels. Those who appear to be naive, to give too much, to trust too easily. I have a special fondness for them because they have direct access to the heart of God. They remind me of who I am at my core, they are […]

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Respect = Love

by Sophie July 17, 2013 Abuse

I think today’s lessons are about respectful boundaries. So bear that in mind as people challenge you, betray you, try to invade your privacy or to expose you.  I know it’s part of becoming aware of the clarity that has been offered to us this year  but remember  that: respect is the highest form of  […]

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Playing in the Same Sandbox

by Sophie July 15, 2013 Abuse

I am getting mighty tired of the “You attracted it, you manifested it in your life, you are 100% responsible for everything in your life because you manifested every aspect of it” chant. Just a minute. Let’s break it down and look beyond the obvious. 1- I know LOA exists whether we see it or […]

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With Respect and Without Expectations

by Sophie April 26, 2013 Abuse

There is a softness in some people that comes from having let go repeatedly. I don’t mean a giving up. I mean a softness of surrender and acceptance and a purposeful decision to keep on choosing wonder and tenderness that brings them so much closer to the Divine. Softness such as you create with a […]

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